1. IF YOURE NOT INTERESTED SAY SO: Find a tactful, respectful way to tell a man/woman that youre not interested in them or what they have to offer so that you can avoid being annoyed with unwanted phone calls/communication.
2. SPEAK UP: Dont wait until youve been serious with someone for 6 months before you start discussing your likes, dislikes, desires, goals, etc. Find the right time to have those discussions early on so that the two of you are on the same page later on.
3. DO NOT COMPARE & CONTRAST YOUR NEW WITH YOUR OLD: No one wants to be compared to anyone else, whether it be good or bad. So dont spend time evaluating what he does that so and so didnt do. It will put a damper on what your new partner has to offer.
4. BOUNDARIES: DO NOT allow someone you are seeing into your home until youve been out on a few dates (amount of dates determined at your discretion). That will let that person know your intentions & it will give you time to find out if their intentions are the same.
5. ALONE TIME: DO NOT allow someone into your bedroom the first few times they visit your home. Staying in a common area will help you to avoid sending any signals that youre ready for the relationship to become physical.
05 October 2011
What a Mighty "Good" Man
As I travel on this journey of getting to know myself & others. I'm realizing that a "Good Man" IS NOT defined by worldly things. (I know this sounds corny but stick with me please). We often associate a "Good Man" by the fact that he, a. has a job, b. has a car, c. has his own place, mixed in with a myriad of other "properties" i.e. a degree, God fearing, chivalrous, etc. But what I've realized is... there is no "Good Man" or a predefined "Mr. Right".
What makes a man "good" or "right" for you is the two of you. Your interactions & attraction to that man, physically, intellectually & spiritually, are what make him "right" for you. Yes, a job/career, apartment/house, car & education are very strong building blocks, they may even make up important parts of the foundation of a "Good Man" but they DO NOT make him a "Good Man". What fills the cracks in that foundation are what make him a good man for YOU!
NO MAN IS PERFECT (NOR WOMAN...BUT WE'RE TALKING ABOUT MEN HERE).
What makes a man "good" or "right" for you is the two of you. Your interactions & attraction to that man, physically, intellectually & spiritually, are what make him "right" for you. Yes, a job/career, apartment/house, car & education are very strong building blocks, they may even make up important parts of the foundation of a "Good Man" but they DO NOT make him a "Good Man". What fills the cracks in that foundation are what make him a good man for YOU!
NO MAN IS PERFECT (NOR WOMAN...BUT WE'RE TALKING ABOUT MEN HERE).
Who You Lovin'? Who You Wanna Be Huggin'?
Ladies... how do you feel about the theory that if a man isnt all you want him to be its because the men you pick are a direct reflection of how you view yourself?
I ask because I've been picking men who wont love me, only want sex & wont give me 100% of themselves. I'd say they are a depiction of where i am in my life right now, i dont love myself 100% & all i talk about is sex, so i get what i speak into existence.
Just how applicable are the laws of attraction to real life attractions between two people?
I ask because I've been picking men who wont love me, only want sex & wont give me 100% of themselves. I'd say they are a depiction of where i am in my life right now, i dont love myself 100% & all i talk about is sex, so i get what i speak into existence.
Just how applicable are the laws of attraction to real life attractions between two people?
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